National Pie Day

Pie (and cake) being served in Pie Town, New Mexico, c. 1940s, Russell Lee (for Works Progress Administration)

I couldn't very well let this day pass without notice, even if I am not making any pie in its honor. The last day I wrote about National Pie Day was just after Obama's first inauguration in 2009 (on my dormant blog, In the Pantry: just go there and do a "Search" on anything related to "pie" and "bakery" and you will find many writings). Then I was going to write about the many wonderful things I learned from Robert the Baker in the ten years I worked for him––but that will become its own sort of essay (and many years ago, probably about seven or eight, I wrote about him, too). And this is a blog, after all.

I'm celebrating National Pie Day this year with two healthy fruit smoothies and some homemade soup. My husband and I are doing the 21-day Digest Diet to get ourselves on track and to boost some needed weight loss. So no pie for the Ponds right now. I'm not ruling it out in the future but, well, let's just say that I like this "diet" because it clearly tells me what to prepare each day in an easy-to-follow format and I'm too busy right now to worry about meals. If someone is telling me what to prepare, and it is easy to do (sort of like spa cuisine), that's half the battle. If we can get through the more restrictive first four days, we can do anything. I'll let you know how it goes.

For now, I am enjoying a lot of food porn: in cookbooks, recipe clippings and favorite cooking shows. It really does help.

You come back when you're ready!

Catherine

For more about Pie Town, New Mexico, here is a great online article in the Smithsonian.

“Recieved book all right-I will tend to other.”

One of my recent blog posts was framed by the joys of reading a delightful Christmas story called Christmas at Eagle Pond by Donald Hall. I continue to be impressed by one small detail from the book: that his grandmother, every day, wrote on the back of a penny postcard to each of her three daughters (including Hall’s mother)—and they, in turn, wrote back to her their own daily postcards. Imagine: a few lines scrawled on the back of a card with brief news or observations about one’s day.

I have saved all of the cards and letters my maternal grandmother, paternal grandfather—and many other friends and family—have written to me through the years. They are treasures but few are as concise as a postcard. A stack of memories like that is so much better and more tangible than a silly “tweet” on Twitter or even a random Facebook musing. I imagine they are more comparable to the few lines a day that my great-grandmother kept in her voluminous daily dairies or what I write in my few-line-a-day 10-year journal (a gift to myself a few years ago): “Quiet day on the ridge. Our cattle are well-fed thanks to the boys, in Temple’s absence. Put up the last of the applesauce. Needed rain is coming.” 

This is the verso of the above New Year's postcard. I love that it is also to a woman named Addie as that is my daughter's name and she, too, is far away. Ironically, "Miss Addie Marel" was a resident of Gallupville in Schoharie County, in upstate New York. That is a very special part of the world and home to two dear photographer friends.

Of course, to mail one postcard today is the cost of a month’s worth back in the 1940s and with unlimited minutes on phone plans and email, sending any handwritten correspondence has become a lost art. Notes and written greetings have gone the way of the telegram (my parents received several when I was born in 1962 and I’ve only ever seen one in my baby book).

In recent months I have actually written more cards, letters and postcards than I have in the past fifteen years (ok, a few I have typed—or, rather, word-processed). Call it an email backlash (I will never Tweet, I can assure you, even if a future publisher might beg me to do so) or blame it on our lightning strike back in early August which limits my Internet use to a few WiFi hours a week in nearby Somerset (ironically, DSL is all set to go in on our ridge after years of pleading—but I’m actually considering not getting it!). My Old Order Mennonite friends, who rarely have phones and certainly no Internet access, like to send around “Round Robin” letters—a delightfully archaic act and something that seems more like an enjoyable chat among many on a Facebook wall in lieu of actual conversation. The difference is that it is handwritten and slower in its arrival.

After years of writing emails—some that should not have been sent, I admit, but rather said in person or a more considered letter (and one problem is that I type as fast as I think which either can be dangerous or long-winded or both: 100wpm is either a gift or a curse, depending on the situation)—I am going back to my postal roots. In the last few months I have found many stashes of stationery, note cards, postcards, and even unused Christmas cards in a massive post-move (even if it was four years ago) box cleanup. I have even found many well intentioned and numerous stamp purchases that had been tucked away. So, like everything in our pantries and freezers (and even present stashes I’ve been finding—this is the first year in forever that I’ve actually bought less than five items at Christmas for my entire list of people—you see, hoarding can have its advantages if you are at least semi-organized), I’m using them all up. It might take me a decade but I’m determined to contribute to the struggling U.S. Postal Service along the way—perhaps even to brighten the days of my friends and family, on occasion, too.

I still don’t have a “SmartPhone” (just a track phone that I take, begrudgingly, on the occasional extended trip or solo overnight) and I don’t even want one. The computer—with its limited weekly hours of Internet on my (already ancient) Mac PowerBook—is sufficient. Facebook is fun and occasional and I do like being part of a wider network there (but am no longer addicted or afflicted with it). Blogging is something I miss—although I have not figured out how to be concise in this medium, I admit, after almost eight years of having blogs—but even that can be arranged with some finesse and photo uploading. On occasion, it has seemed, I was living to blog (and to photograph everything)—which isn’t always a good thing, either. I am even picking up the phone more often despite a long and tempestuous relationship with this intrusion.

So here is to a very and blessed New Year to you. I can promise that mine will be filled with words and good books (with no domestic distractions of the Internet, I’m actually reading much more these days, too) and much writing in and amongst our days on the farm. After a very busy 2012 reconnecting with old friends and family in real time, I am ready for a quiet few months on the ridge before our glorious Appalachian spring (and the inherent ease of socializing that comes to me with brighter and longer days). Like Persephone, I have learned to welcome both the inevitability and the inward retreat of darkness and seclusion each year—I no longer fear it.

And I will still send out the odd peep or two to a mailbox near you. If you’d like to receive a carte de post, just email your address to info@CatherinePond.com. I promise to mail you a note as a gesture of good cheer—just promise that you’ll do the same thing for someone else.

You come back when you're ready! 

Catherine

Peace on Earth - Good Will to All - Merry Christmas !

"The tree, too, is a symbol. How good the scent of pine, how bright the fragile gold and blue glass balls, how shining the tinsel and the delicate glass icicles! But this tree, this year, as the tree my mother used to trim on long-ago Christmas Eves, has a meaning beyond any individual tree. It is a symbol of the rich growth which Nature gives us all—out of the dark and frozen earth under the snow came the seed, comes the lifting spire of green. Unless we destroy her, the earth will grow green in spring, bear in summer, glow in autumn and dream in winter. The seasons with their infinite splendor will roll on; the glory of the sun and moon will be vouchsafed to us. This is the promise of my Christmas tree."

~ Gladys Tabor, Stillmeadow Seasons, 1947

You come back when you're ready!

Catherine

Joy in the Morning

I was struck by this passage when I read it last week. If you haven't discovered the joys of Gladys Taber, I highly recommend that you run to your nearest used book store or library and read anything that she wrote. She was a columnist and magazine writer and was most famous for her "Stillmeadow" books which chronicle the seasons on her farm and her observations about the world. What resonates with me about this passage is how, although it was written during the World War II years, it is still relevant today. I read this the day before the tragedy at Newtown and I read it again today to remind myself that this, too, shall pass. I just pray that the people directly affected will be able to find some peace over time for what seems unanswerable.

I hope that you have a blessed, quiet and beautiful Christmas and holiday season. I know that I'm feeling grateful for so many things right now and glad of the moments that I often take for granted––and the people in them.

"We live in parlous times. Nobody can deny it. With the divorce rate skyrocketing, and foreign troubles sitting like gray wolves outside the door, and politics a shambles, and unrest in every industry, and the economic situation unstable, we know that life is grave. Our country is full of underprivileged people; we face crises not once a month but every week. I know all this. I know we are bigoted and narrow––and I read many letters from women who say they will not bring a child into this world because they are afraid.

But oh, as Christmas comes again, I know an inner security about life that I wish I could share. The old tired earth is most beautiful and lovely. As long as men come home from work and children from school and women put a sprig of parsley on the platter so the steak or the chicken or the spaghetti may look festive, so long as the church bells ring in the frosty air, we may have a world worth living for.

And Christmas is the time when we can understand this; even if we are sad or lonely or in trouble as so many people are in this scrap of whirling matter-in-space. For this is the season of living as deeply as we may, of loving, and of the expression of the values of life that we can believe in...any loving deed or word, this is the magic of Christmas!"

~ Gladys Taber, Stillmeadow Seasons, 1947

You come back when you're ready!

Catherine

Joyeux Noël

This month I read a short, delightful Christmas story by Donald Hall (with beautiful woodcuttings by Mary Azarian). Christmas at Eagle Pond is the author’s imagined holiday with his grandparents over the stretch of Christmas week in the early 1940s at their New Hampshire farm—a Christmas he never shared with them because he only came up with his parents from Connecticut each summer. Hall has carried these memories with him, over 70 years later, of his grandparents’ farm: their routines, the foods they ate (his grandmother’s pantry!), the daily chores and the many country experiences and conversations that he shared with his family.

When I was a child I dreamt and daydreamed of my grandparents’ own New Hampshire farm throughout the winter: where we too would only visit in the summer. I imagine that their Christmases—after their children and grandchildren lived elsewhere—were quiet and marked by the early morning service at their Episcopal church, a few simple gifts (most likely books to each other or favorite plants tended in their own greenhouse), an easy dinner, and quiet moments around the fireplace after chores.

My grandparents, despite their illustrious upbringings around New York City, spent their last thirty years together on 1790s New England farm where they raised their six children amongst an assortment of animals—including milking cows, horses, chickens, geese—and acres of produce. They were among the first wave of “back-to-the-landers” and their farmhouse contained the scattered—and often delightfully tattered—remains of generations: old portraits, assorted silver and china, rooms full of old, well-loved books and even the precious porcelain “courting cups” that had been a regular gift from my great-grandfather to his future wife. There was a cavernous barn with an attached annex and summer kitchen—evocative of the “Big House, Little House, Back House, Barn” motif that was predominant in many New England farmsteads—and fragrant pinewoods, fields and brooks surrounded it. The farm was a magical place, despite the sorrows that did occur there, and will be forever a part of me. We had our own Christmases there after my parents divorced, my grandfather died, and we moved from Ohio with my mother in 1974.

Eli's creche scene (2011).

My mother’s Christmases were probably a bit more elaborate than those of her parents or her own childhood—but still with an infused simplicity and beauty. The tree was the focus—filled with handmade ornaments from friends and older glass balls and tinsel. We brought out favorite decorations from our Ohio days but mostly it was the greenery that I remember: the red winterberries, the boughs, and bits of the forest that my mother gathered from the pinewoods and assembled with her own flourishes. We attended the midnight Christmas Eve service and spent the entire next day in our pajamas—even having our Christmas feast that way (a tradition I continue today where flannel is de rigueur at the dinner table). The sounds of our Christmas were the constant low music from the hi-fi (usually Andy Williams, the Kingston Trio, and other favorites) and the crackle of the fire in the woodstoves. In future years, before I was married and when I was working in Boston, I would return back to the city, open my suitcase and welcome the cold, fresh air and pungent wood smoke that had been encased with my belongings. It was the tonic of home.

Gertie, Emmet and Cora at Christmas (2010) • They are now back in the wild.

Last year's tree (2011) at the double-wide.
There will be fewer gifts this year, by choice.

So here is to a Merry (quiet) Christmas or whatever your tradition at this time of year—we are hoping to light a large bonfire around the Winter Solstice, too. And these words have meant much as we've simplified things a great deal in our holidays this year. [And be sure to check back in a few weeks for a special New Year's greeting, too.]

You come back when you're ready!

Catherine

NOTE: Donald Hall, a former United States Poet Laureate, has written many books over the years including my favorites String Too Short to Be Saved, Ox-Cart Man, Lucy’s Christmas (the former a memoir and the latter two for children) and some recent memoirs about his life shared with, and after, his wife and fellow poet, Jane Kenyon (I highly recommend her poetry, also). Since the mid-1970s he has lived on his grandparents’ New Hampshire farm where he continues to write.